Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

06 September 2012

things and such, from josh

Hello, Josh here. As I have some spare time tonight, I thought I might add my voice to Rachel's and tell you about life here in Oslo from my perspective, which has been taken up largely by Fulbright orientation stuff, then University of Oslo (UiO) orientation, then the beginning of classes up until now. I do not relish the task of summing up my life in the past month, so I would like instead to reflect upon some high/low-lights.

One of the biggest recent developments is the fact that I am now the proud temporary owner of a guitar. Rachel and I have been attending weekly Christian Union meetings with a bunch of other Christians who are interested in eating and communing together. This has provided a means of getting to know new people, especially Norwegians who are otherwise a bit difficult to get to know (or find, for that matter, since we live in a student village populated mostly by fellow international students). Anyways, one of the Norwegians, a nice fellow named Jarl, which is pronounced with a soft "j" like "yawrl", told me that he had a guitar that he did not play and he proceeded to offer it to me. I can only interpret this as a blessing and a gift, since the ukulele has not fulfilled my desire to make music and just recently I had been really wishing I could have brought along a guitar. It is a black, non-distinct classic guitar with a muted timbre, but it plays and sounds pretty decent. Needless to say, I have wasted (or invested) a lot of time today welcoming this new thing into my life. 

For my master's program we have a gargantuan amount of reading every night, although we meet for my two classes maybe five times total every week. We also have Mondays off, strangely enough. Lately, our friday classes have been seminars in which we students are supposed to display our new understanding in a performative manner. These have taken the form of debates and rhetorical analysis, which I have found to be both a bit nerve-racking (I still get nervous when speaking out in large groups) and also intellectually stimulating. Once I accept the increased heart beat and get over the slight tinge of nervousness, I really enjoy participating in the debate, rebutting another's remark here, trying my hand at a critique there. I have found it rewarding to express my opinions and open up my position to critique. Plus, my fellow students (half of whom are Norwegian) are nice, amiable folk, none of whom make the seminar unpleasant or awkward. 

The classes themselves have been so-so; they are Research & Methods and Key Issues in Development and Environment. Though the methods class can be a bit boring and technical at times, I like that class better than the Key Issues class, mostly because the key issues class focuses on specific problems for two weeks at a time. This first module has dwelt on REDD+, a global reforestation program involving capitalism and market incentives, none of which I had never heard about and frankly do not really care about. The Methods class has addressed more basic issues, like meta-debates in the social sciences (naturalism vs. constructivism) or the differing methods used by researchers in various fields. With some philosophic topics mixed in, this class has sparked a lot of thought and gained my approval. Overall, my experience at SUM (Center for Development and Environment) has been positive. 

Here's a story: I had volunteered to be the class representative for our year and everyone had said yes since nobody else wanted to do it (which is why I stepped up). But after a day in the position, in which I did nothing but brag a bit to Rachel, I was deposed. A coup d'etat, regicide, call it what you like, but I am class representative no longer. An authority at SUM told me that class representative must be able to speak and read in Norwegian, which rendered me incapable of fulfilling my official responsibilities. Another guy, a Norwegian named Jorgen, stepped up to take my position, pretty big shoes to fill considering all that I had accomplished in such little time. I have considered filing a discrimination lawsuit, but once the brimming anger, nay pure rage, subsided, my good sense got the better of me. Actually, I am both a little relieved and a little bummed at the same time; it would have been nice to have a role that would facilitate new relationships with interesting people with my department, but it would have also been another responsibility.  Oddly enough, Jorgen, the new class representative, also just recently got married, as did two of the other guys in my program and one other girl. Out of the seven guys in my class, four of us are married. 

Well, I think that is enough for now. I covered less ground than I had originally hoped, but it is late and I am content to let this suffice. I plan on periodically posting on this blog. I used to have my own blog, but found it to be too onerous a task to sustain with any degree of success or feeling of accomplishment. If you have any questions or would like to know about any specific in my life, please post your questions, to which I will try to respond in a timely fashion. 

24 August 2012

around here.


A lot has happened during our second week in Oslo.  Josh started his classes at SUM (Center for Development and the Environment), which means he has class everyday for a couple hours and usually has some reading to do each night.  Perhaps in a while he will blog here about what he thinks of his program and all the academic stuff. While Josh is off at school I have been baking bread and cookies, volunteering at Abels Hage (a community garden), applying to jobs at private schools in Oslo and making crafts to sell at an artisan market in a couple weeks.  I'm pretty excited about this last thing-- most of you probably know that I enjoy making handmade cards and little notebooks and I even have an online shop, which I hope to start up again soon.  But, at Abels Hage the other day, a friend and founder of the garden said they are having an artisan market at the garden and I'm welcome to sell anything if I make things.  "Well, I do happen to make things," I told her and then I told her about the cards and she said that sounds great.  It's fun to have a goal to work towards, especially one that I've been slowly working towards for a while now- that is, selling things I make.  I'm also feeling more hopefully about getting a teaching job or a substituting job.  A classmate of Josh's has a friend who thinks I could be a substitute teacher at his school in the near future.  I guess that's how stuff works here-- you know someone who knows someone who can help you out.  We're slowly making connections and getting to know people better here, which feels good.

 We've been cooking lots of delicious meals together, including gallo pinto and homemade tortillas.  Josh's favorite food right now seems to be the brown cheese that is special to Norway.  It's kind of a sweet cheese that tastes like a mix of peanut butter, butterscotch, carmel and cheese.  He loves it, but I only kind of like it.  We've been frequenting the soccer fields behind our apartment to watch some local high school aged games in the evenings.  Maybe it's weird that we show up to these games, but we enjoy watching.  The teams here seem to play quicker and move hastily than they do in the U.S.  Yesterday we had a nice picnic downtown in Radhusetplass overlooking the water and all the boats.  It had been a while since we went downtown just to hang out and enjoy the area, so I felt like I was seeing Oslo with fresh eyes again. We were realizing that Oslo is a really nice city with beautiful green spaces and lots of fun things to do. We really appreciate how friendly Oslo is towards pedestrians and bikers.  So it's good to be here in Oslo, but we do miss you dear ones back in the U.S. of A.  Hope all is well!

03 July 2012

summer beats/beets

This post is mostly about beets-that awesome purple vegetable that stains everything the perfect purple color- but the pun was so good that I thought I also ought to post something about beats, you know as in music beats.  So here is a really cool song:
 

And now, for the beets.  I LOVE beets. I love their earthy taste and their purpely color. Plus, they are super healthy.  When I studied abroad in Costa Rica I learned about organic farming and more than ever before I began to care about the food I ate.  At that point in my life I was already a vegetarian, but after visiting farms and plantations, I began to care about eating food in season and eating locally grown food.  As a college student sharing food with four other girls, eating local, seasonal food is tough and sometimes expensive.  But as a college graduate living at home for the summer with a vegetable garden in the backyard, this is not as much of a problem.  A couple weeks ago I visited the local farmer's market and picked up many goodies including beets.  I like to boil them and eat them kind of lukewarm on a salad or just by themselves.  Here's my simple, step by step recipe:

Step 1: obtain fresh beets:
  
Step 2: cut beets into chunks:

Step 3: boil beets (covered) for 20-30 minutes until tender or the beets reach the consistency you desire:

Step 4: strain beets and run cool water over them several times:

Step 5: after beets have cooled a bit, peel off the skin with your fingers (it's easy!):

 Step 6: cut beets into smaller chunks if you want and enjoy!

Do you like beets?
What is your favorite summer veggie?

currently: late june/early july

 
 
enjoying nature + my new camera

nearly finished teaching for the summer

reading The Cloister Walk

eating summer veggies from the garden

loving bikes rides to and from work

harvesting a few tomatoes here and there

running despite the heat

watching the Olympic trials

looking forward to two weddings: Niquita's and then MINE!

03 April 2012

april 3, 2011

As I was writing in my journal this morning I thought it would be fun to read my journal from last spring when I was studying abroad in Costa Rica.  Since today is April 3, I flipped open to April 3 2011.  At that time I was doing an internship at a small school in rural Costa Rica.  I had been living with a Costa Rican family for two weeks already and was the only American our pueblito. [Read more about my internship here.]  When I flipped open my journal I found a good reminder:

3 de Abril

     This coming week is my last full week in Chahuites, working at the school and living with my host family.  I want to remember: To be willing to assist in everything or nothing with a good attitude.  To stay engaged with my family even if I'm tired or feeling awkward.  To be flexible, do new things, and not get upset if we don't stick to the plan.  To be observant, watch, listen, ask questions.  To have a gracious heart and be thankful that my hosts are letting me into their world and that they've accepted me like a daughter.  To have perseverance through the uncomfortable, difficult, lonely moments and realize that I can learn something from those experiences. 

I think my advice to myself is helpful even in my life here in the States, but it seemed to spring up at an especially appropriate time because I just found out that I will be living in Oslo, Norway for a year beginning in August.  Joshua received a Fulbright scholarship to study and do a research project in Oslo.  This recent news is extremely exciting, but I'm also anxious to figure out what I can do for a whole year in this foreign country.  I will certainly try to learn Norwegian and I will try to volunteer somewhere or get a job, although I hear it's nearly impossible to get a job as a foreigner.  Since everything is so uncertain, I think it will be helpful to adopt a mentality that is flexible and ready to try new things.  I think in August I will be ready for a new adventure.  Right now I want to live in the moment and cherish what's left of my life at Greenville College living with my crazy roommates.  But I can't deny that I'm looking forward to being married to Josh and experiencing a totally new culture.  I'm looking forward to making some new friends (and keeping in touch with my dear friends in the States), speaking a new language, and learning more about myself.  Living abroad, away from the comfort of family, friends and the familiar way life seems to open my eyes to new things.  I'm thankful for the experiences I've had in different cultures that have taught me new things and I'm equally thankful for this new opportunity that is so full of potential. 


Oslo, Norway (from google images):


It looks like a pretty cool place, right?

24 January 2012

the 2011 list

this year I:

spent a semester living, studying and exploring in Latin America

gained three new, loving and wonderful host families (two in Costa Rica and one in Nicaragua)

ate SO much (almost always delicious) food

instantly made new friends

skyped Joshua a whole lot

wrote hundreds of emails to friends and family

visited an organic farm in Costa Rica

made it my goal to become a farmer

decided to write in my journal every single day

failed to write everyday (but, nevertheless, did a lot of journaling)

gave passage meditation a try

became familiar with the bus system in San Jose

developed an addiction to a love for black coffee

spoke Spanish daily

lost a fair amount of my Spanish speaking ability  (I hope to regain it again!)

saw a volcanoe

swam in a river and played on the muddy bank for five hours with my Nicaraguan friends

threw up on the side of the road in San Jose

ran sprints in my front yard

celebrated Chinese New Year with a huge feast, family and friends

studied the history, economics, culture, politics and literature of Latin America

dyed Easter eggs with my host mom

helped out in first grade class full of curious, sweet little Ticos

learned to be bold

ate a lot of meat

learned to be a non-snobby vegetarian

prayed

re-read Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix

learned how to handle feeling lonely and to rely on the people around me for comfort

sucked the marrow out of life

felt bored

ran

drank fresh fruit smoothies made by my abuelita

sang "Head, Shoulders, Knees and Toes" with my Costa Rican school kids.

blogged

sat on the porch

did a lot of homework

went to a art and culture festival

wrote a paper about sustainable agriculture

packed

unpacked

spent a week in Cuba

ate 5 ice cream cones in one night  dream come true

celebrated Easter in the ocean

reflected, processed and wrote in my journal

had a debriefing weekend in Miami

cherished my last moments with my LASP friends

expanded my understanding of what it means to be a Christian

came home

hugged my parents

watched my sister play soccer

painted many a dorm room

listened to Narnia and Harry Potter audiobooks with Wes

readjusted

wandered the streets of seven different Italian cities

developed deeper friendships

worked on my quilt

hiked, biked and ate good food in Crested Butte, Colorado with my family.

took a couple summer classes

hung out with Josh and his family  in Seattle

worked in various gardens (mine, Josh's and St. Paul's)

played soccer

ran at very early hours of the day with Jamie Hoag

reunited with my college friends

 struggled with my own negativity

experience reverse culture shock

walked in the gullies

hung out with Allison in Texas

longed to be in Costa Rica

loved being back at Greenville College with friends all about and family nearby

felt overwhelmed by classes

tutored a Chinese student in English

participated in Wednesday night community meal

enjoyed many "coffee dates" with a multitude of wonderful friends

spent hours talking with Kelly, Niqui, Caitlin and Erica in our cozy (sometimes messy) apartment

played the ritual Christmas Block Game with my cousins

celebrated Christ's birth at St. Paul's and with my family


*I got this idea from elise's blog. While this is not a complete list of everything I did in 2011, it was a nice, reflective process to write down many of the ways I spent my time this past year.  And I know it's a little bit late since we're a good month into 2012...oh well : )

21 December 2011

holiday times.

 
Wow.  It's been a while since I've visited this good ol' blog of mine.  The semester flew by (I hope to recap a bit on that later) and now it is nearly Christmas.  The semester wound down with a wonderful Greek dinner and fun times with friends.  Being busy, busy seniors, most of our time together is spent with our heads in our textbooks and our fingers typing away on our laptops. It was nice to spend our last days together before break playing games, making food and watching movies.  Today, my first full day of break was spent painting, baking and celebrating the winter solstice.   It's been wonderful and I look forward to spending time with family over this holiday break.

p.s. more to come on handmade holiday things soon.

12 October 2011

my life is much too fast paced.

I must  s  l  o  w  down

and remember the words of St. Teresa of Avila:

Let nothing upset you;
Let nothing frighten you.
Everything is changing;
God alone is changeless.
Patience attains the goal.
Who has God lacks nothing;
God alone fills every need.

and  s    l    o    w   down even more.

15 September 2011

a much needed craft night.

Almost always my Sunday evenings look like this:
 
Reading, writing or studying.  But this past Sunday I was so completely overwhelmed by all the school work that I needed a break.  My roommate, Niqui, and I put down the books for a while to have some much needed craft time.  We spent a few hours scrapbooking our summers, watching Mansfield Park, snacking and talking.  And let me tell you, it was WAY better than doing homework!
   I received one of elisejoy’s summer minibooks for my birthday, but have not actually used it much.  (My birthday is at the end of July, so most of the summer had already happened by the time I started making this scrapbook.) Slowly, but surely I am filling up this book with photos of my summer, thoughts and memories.  I seriously love this minibook.  It is full of cool papers with fun little details and adding my own pictures and words only makes it better. This summer Elise blogged about creating her own summer book as the summer progressed, but since I am late to start this book I am mostly documenting the big things I've done this summer.  Going to Seattle, Josh's visit to Greenville, family vacation in Colorado,  trip to Italy with my soccer team are the major parts of the book, but I add little details when I can.  Hopefully I can finish this before fall is over!
I love the little details: